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Premature Ejaculation Treatment and  Causes

Premature ejaculation is a condition where a man ejaculates shortly after penetration or earlier than he or his partner would like him to. In other words, it is a condition in which a man ejaculates before his sex partner achieves orgasm, or if ejaculation occurs usually within two minutes of penetration.

Most men would describe premature ejaculation as the worst moment of their lives especially if their partner voiced open disappointment in the bedroom. Apart from those men who have chronic ejaculation problems, just about every man has an instance of premature ejaculation from time to time. There are many reasons why premature ejaculation can happen.

Premature Ejaculation Possible Causes

1) Penis Hypersensitivity

When it comes to premature ejaculation the widely held presumption is that the more sensitive a man’s penis, the more likely he is to reach orgasm quickly during intercourse. However, some researchers have found an inverse relation between penile responsiveness to stimulation and the climax time.  This is not a clear cut finding, but interesting.

Research has also find that men who have early ejaculation during sexual intercourse also tend to ejaculate quite quickly during masturbation, almost as twice as fast as other men. It suggests that there is something different in the nervous system of men who prematurely ejaculate. However, it’s more probable that these men have conditioned themselves to rapidly ejaculate after stimulation.

2) Brain Abnormalities

There are numerous cases where abnormalities or anomalies in the composition of the brain cause emotional illness and some instances results in fatality. So it is not far fetch that they could also result in conditions like premature ejaculation.

The Ejaculation process involves several stages and requires the operation of a number of genital apparatus:- the ampullary vas deferens, seminal vesicles, prostate gland and urethra and bospongiosus muscle.  The neurotransmitter serotonin (a compound secreted in the brain) plays an important role in the functioning of these parts and the resulting ejaculation. Studies have shown that low level of serotonin in the brain could cause premature ejaculation.

3) Negativity: performance anxiety, fear of sex, fear of not being good enough, sexual shame and guilt

A heightened emotional state e.g. anxiety, depression, anger, fear etc., and a heightened sexual state are triggered by similar mechanisms in the brain.

The connection between a heightened emotional state and a heightened sexual state means that a man who is experiencing a high level of anxiety – heightened mental activity, rapid heartbeat, unusual sweating and other symptoms, is more than likely to have a rapid increase in his level of sexual arousal during sex and an uncontrollable early ejaculation.

A man can be filled with all sorts of pre-sex anxiety, such as: fear of being judge as inadequate by his partner – this may be triggered by his perception, for example, of his penis size, his ability to control his ejaculation, his fear of sex itself which may have developed as a result of negative sexual childhood experiences (usually centered around masturbation or sexual abuse by an older individual).There are direct connections between these highly charged emotional states and the sexual activity itself. That is, a man who worries about ejaculating too quickly will increase his level of anxiety which heightens his awareness and makes him more anxious about coming too soon. As a result, he will find himself actually ejaculating too quickly.

With respect to sexual shame and guilt, they more or less work in the same way – the level of sexual arousal and the level of anxiety are increased, and consequently premature ejaculation occurs. Shame and guilt surrounding sex are normally derived from negative childhood associations, such as punishment for masturbating or any other sexual indulgence. Eventually, sexual activity becomes an anxiety charges event and may even be threatening

4) Sexually Inexperienced

A boy or a man’s, for that matter, first sexual intercourse is highly charged and emotional irrespective of the amount of conditioning he went through, such as watching pornography, looking at pictures, reading books etc. He is, naturally, extremely excited due to all the anticipatory buildup prior to the event.  This high level of sexual excitation will speed up the time it takes to reach climax given rise to premature ejaculation.

5) Forced or fast ejaculation habit develop during masturbation

Certain habit of masturbation during puberty may lead to premature ejaculation later in adulthood. When a young man is afraid his sexual activity may be discovered or feels shamed or guilt, he may try to hasten his release. This forced sexual release if becomes habitual may negatively affect a man ejaculation during intercourse later in life.

6) Lack of awareness of the level of  sexual arousal

If a man is not aware of his increasing sexual arousal it may be the reason why he suddenly finds himself ejaculating even though he had no sense of approaching his point of no return. Many men engrossed in the act of sexual dominance and the goal of providing optimum pleasure to their partner forgets to pay attention to their own feelings and keeps plowing away. One has to pay more attention to one’s sexual arousal and feelings and modulating the sexual movement thereby maintaining control of ejaculation.

5) Hypersensitivity to sexual stimulation

One can be too sensitive to sexual stimulation psychologically and mentally. Certain touch, image or shapes or sight of a particular profile that’s in your mind may trigger an orgasmic feeling and hence an uncontrollable sexual release or premature ejaculation.

As far as male sexual problems, premature ejaculation is the most common and the most frustrating to deal with, because you know there must be a way to better sex, only if you could last longer! When premature ejaculation becomes a chronic issue, you need help and it can be solved only if you just follow the right way to do it. For the ultimate guide to superior sexual endurance I recommend either of (click each link here)  The Ejaculation Trainer  or  Ejaculation by Command– these methods are widely used and they guaranteed to work for the vast majority of men with life changing benefits and enormous orgasmic pleasure. They covers all the different causes of premature ejaculation and how to effectively address each one. You’ll learn the proven approach to permanently end premature ejaculation and dozens of other techniques and information to prevent PE and control ejaculation. You will actually be able to allow your body (penis, ejaculatory nerves, & neurological reflexes) to withstand more sexual stimulation, so you can naturally last longer without even trying.